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Take a guess what kind of men women find attractive.

Most men think being attractive to women is about possessing a list of material characteristics.

At first glance, this makes sense. Listen in on a herd of ladies chattering on about what they look for in a man. They’ll yap on about how they want a man with George Clooney’s mug, Vin Deisel’s physique, Bill Gate’s Bank Account, and Bob Dylan’s fame.

Yet many of these females will sleep with and marry gentleman who don’t even possess one of these things.

How do we resolve the paradox?

Here’s the answer: the attributes women think they want in a man and the attributes that unconsciously drive them to see a man as a Prize bear little resemblance.

In this article, we are going to focus on one of these attributes: assuming a woman is interested in you from the get go.

In the Empire Strikes Back there’s a scene where Han Solo is being frozen in carbonite.

Here’s how George Lucas originally wrote the scene:

Princess Lea says, “I love you.”

Han responds with, “I love you too.”

Lucas thought the writing was romantic. But really it was just cheesy.

So the day they filmed the scene, Harrison Ford, the actor who plays Han Solo, threw Lucas a monkey wrench by veering off script.

When Princess Leia said, “I love you,” like a pimp he responded with a terse, “I know.”

This single line is what made Empire Strikes Back a cult classic.

Whenever women see this scene, their hearts thud with excitement.

Don’t women find his words a bit arrogant?

Most likely.

But get this: when a man sees himself as a Prize, women are hard-wired to sexual respond to him.

Will this work if a woman is not attracted to you?

Yes. Beliefs are contagious. If your belief is strong enough, she’ll start believing it too.

Josh Lubens, a dating expert, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and specializes in teaching the art of seduction. Visit his site if you’d like to get some free seduction tips.